
They both were big framed but they were big men in other ways. They both achieved remarkable careers throughout their lives. Below are details of their remarkable lives.
After the war, Dad worked for the Internal Revenue Service
for 33 years and went up the ranks to be the Assistant Regional Commissioner
in California and other western states. Later he served as an advisor for
the IRS in Peru, India, and Africa. Taking us on several adventures in those
other countries.
Growing up in Belmont, I remember Dad working hard every day and walking 2
miles to the train station and then 2 miles home at night. I think that was
one of the keys to his longevity. Mom and Dad's marriage was not without its
volatilityhowever, they seemed to persist through it all. I remember
Dad being a sensitive listener when I was young, consoling me on the ups and
downs of being a teenager. Les remembers a man who she would tag along with
to the dump and hardware store and other household chores so she could spend
time with her Dad. Tom spent almost every weekend in the summer when he was
going to college with Dad sailing out to Treasure Island, mooring and
then barbecuing. Mary Ellen was advised by Dad on her various boyfriends conflicts
through the years as a young adult.
Mom died in 1976 at the age of 49. Dad was devastated. Leslie moved back here
from the East and really took Dad under her wing. Even giving him a firm talk
when he would not get out of the dumps and told him he had children that were
also hurting and that needed him. He then picked himself up and embarked on
new adventures. Married Pat Smurr who he had many wonderful years of
traveling and vacations with and later legally separated.
Dad then followed his love for golf and horses and even sailing. He purchased
a small 9 hole golf course in Northern California that Tom ran for him. He
moved to Alameda, had a beautiful sail boat docked outside his back door and
had a great view of the San Francisco Bay. He became friends with Lee and
Rhonda Manter had many wonderful times with them and others.
One day, when he was at Bay Meadows horse track watching the horses,15 years
ago, he struck up a conversation with the person sitting next to him, Duane
Hall. Later that day Dad leans over to Dwaine and says ya know we should
own a horse together. That casual conversation led to many years of wonderful
friendship and owning 10 horses together. They shared many wonderful times.
Dad also became a regular member of the Elks club where he enjoyed many happy
meals and friendships. In the last months of his life Dad visited the
Pleasanton race track to watch his horses, park by the estuary to watch the
boats, visit the Hornet, the World War II warship and park where he could
see the view of the bay and his beloved Pacific Ocean. It warmed our heart
that he got to see things he loved in the last days of his life. Yes, he had
a good life, and treasured the activities he was involved in and the friendships
he had. We should all be so lucky. He will be remembered for his sense of
fun and his spirited ways. We appreciate the time he was with us.
Ernie Langbein is survived by his children: Mary Ellen Trainor, Sherry Langbein,
Leslie Jo Parsons and Brent Parsons (son in law), and Thomas Patrick Langbein.
His grandkids Ryan Trainor, Angie Karp, Ian Trainor, Taylor Parsons, Kayley
Parsons, and Finley his great grandson.
Provided by Leroy Jones
At the 2005 reunion in Providence, RI Jo Hubbard, daughter of Richard & Shirley Smith was always with Earnest Langbein. I knew Joe was married to George Hubbard and thought it odd that she was always close to Bean. But, what the hey, conventions and reunions etc. even with her husband and parents present... what business was of mine who she spent her time with. It was not until the very end of the reunion that I got the rest of the story'. It was Bean who saved Richard Smith's life when the USS Viburnum hit the Japanese mine and Richard was blown off the bow. No wonder Jo was spending as much time as she could with Bean... with out Bean there would be no Jo.



In this time span, he did a lot of things, had a lot of experiences,
made many decisions, lived through the depression, served in WWII, had many
friendships, married, had 4 children, worked for the IRS, traveled to many
countries, raced thoroughbreds, played golf and sailed on the Pacific Ocean.
Dad was born and raised in Los Angeles. His father was from Iowa and his mom
Ellen Smith was from Minnesota. His Dad had his own business as a milk man
and his mom was a school teacher before she had my Dad and his younger brother
Doug. He remembered the trolley that went from his house to the beach in L.A.
and playing volley ball on Manhattan beach. When he was 11 he remembered
walking to school and thinking why did he have to go to school anymore, he
knew everything there is to know. Course he did keep going to school and in
fact had reunited with his junior high school buddies every year for the last
20 years.
Dad lived through the Depression, he was 12 at the beginning of it. He learned
from those times to be frugal, save things and recycle almost everything.
He remembers Seabiscuit and Santa Anita and how this little horse spurred
hope in everyone during the dark days of the Depression. At that time, he
had a thought that it would be neat to someday have a horse and have it race
and win at Santa Anita. Little did he know that that dream would be met many
years later by his horse Bold Chieftain.
He experienced the attack on Pearl Harbor and he enlisted in the Navy serving
in World War II. He seemed to really enjoy his Navy days and had a lot of
pals from that time period. He was Chief Bosun Mate and served in the Pacific
theatre. He met Gloria when he was stationed in Australian and had a sweet
romance with her. However, one day his boat took a hit and they left the harbor
immediately. Just think we could have been blond and had an Australian accent.
Oh well. Gloria later married someone else. Dad came back to the States and
married Patricia Mackey from Kansas in July 21st, 1945. They had four children:
Mary Ellen, Sherry, Leslie Joe, Thomas Patrick.








